
Leading Your Families – Prayer ///
Leading our families spiritually is a challenging task. And if you never had that modeled for you it can be a difficult task to not only start, but to thrive at.
So as I navigate the best way that I can lead my family, I thought I would share with you some real simple and practical ways to lead your family. This will hopefully not only help you, but me as well.
You know there really isn’t a crazy equation of formula that you have to master nor is there any right way, but one of the simplest ways we can lead our families is simply be praying with them and for them! And there are a couple of ways to do this…
- Praying For Them – This is by far the easiest, simplest, and most convenient thing you can do. Try praying for them in the morning with your coffee and make that a reminder. Or pray for them in the shower. I know that sounds really strange but sometimes its the only time we get to ourselves. You could use your lunch time, say 5 minutes, to pray for your family. Or you could pray for them right before you go to bed. Whenever you decide to do this, make it a priority and do it.
- Praying With Them – This takes a little more work and discipline. There has to be a set time… bedtime, morning, etc.
- Praying With Your Spouse – This should be a fairly simple and easy thing to do but I have found that we become vulnerable to each other and that is a scary place to be. But nonetheless, forget the awkwardness and pick a time to spend in prayer with your spouse and make it a priority. You will find that eventually walls will be broken down, hearts will be open, and your relationship will be strengthened.
- Praying With Your Kids – Saying grace at the dinner table doesn’t count! We have found that for us the best time to do this is at bed time. We make it a part of the routine of reading a bible story followed by prayer. Encourage your kids to pray even if they ramble on or pray for silly things like toys. Your teaching them the importance of prayer.
You can start to lead your families by getting on your knees. Don’t be lame or full of excuses why you can’t do this. This may be one of the most important things you can do! You can do this!
Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. – Philippians 4:6
Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective. – James 5:16
We always thank God for all of you and continually mention you in our prayers. – 1 Thessalonians 1:2